And So…

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It had been a rough season. Many trials, sadnesses and unfair situations had been pressing against my heart. Devastating illnesses plagued several dear friends. Discovered betrayals wounded another loved one, and loneliness was the only companion to another whom I hold dear. There was nothing I could do. These were difficulties out of my reach to fix and I brought them to The One in whom I put All hope. But not without a little attitude.

“Dear Heavenly Father”, I began, “I know You are Sovereign-” I was just about to utter the word, “but”, in order to inform Him of the many things people whom I love were struggling with, when a still, small voice interrupted my planned speech to The Almighty. In my spirit I felt the Holy Spirit prompting me to silence. I literally could not say the word “but”.  I sat for a few seconds, and in place of the word “but”, I felt God reminding me, “And so…?”  Um. Right. And so.  “And so I will trust You.”

No thunder rumbled. No mountain quaked. But in my spirit, I was soothed and comforted. And quite undone.

I needed that reminder from God to recognize that the very word ascribed to Him- Sovereign- means He has unrestricted, absolute, boundless, ultimate control over Everything.  Nothing lies outside of His authority. Absolutely nothing. Therefore, anything we face- everything we face, is under His control, for His own purposes and our ultimate good.

Romans 8:28 “and we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

Isn’t that incredible news??  My friend, we have such Hope!  God- The creator of everything, who sent His only Son, Jesus, to die for our sins, and the sins of the world, knows what we face. He knows our hurts, our trials and testings, the things that move us and the things that are daunting to us- and He loves us and has a plan for our Good through those very things we would try to escape.  I don’t know about you, but this is a truth I need to remind myself of daily!

“God, Thank You for your word that reminds us of the truth when we falter.  Thank You that You Are on Your throne, and we can Trust You in all things. We love You, Lord. Help us keep our eyes fixed on You. In the matchless name of Jesus I pray.”

Are there things happening in your life that you are feeling that God has forgotten or isn’t aware of? Be assured- it isn’t so.  He knows. And He loves you. And He is working for your good, even in the midst of the hard places in life.  Next time you start to question Him, remind yourself of His attributes, listing them off, “God, I know You are: Loving, Holy, Sovereign, Just, Immutable” etc, and follow up with the words, “and so…” Trust me, it will change your perspective.

I hope this encourages you- and lets talk- you know- between friends!

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Forgiven

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Once in awhile, I find myself saying things that dismay me. It shouldn’t be that hard – after all, I am the gatekeeper to my own mouth, right? So how can any words sneak past my lips, that I flinch about too late?

Recently I had that experience – the words were barely off my tongue when I was already regretting them – but, they were too late to take back, and no handy excuse could possibly explain my plain-out rudeness…and it troubled me. In fact, not only did the conviction of my ungracious words haunt me for the rest of the day, they prevented me from sleeping soundly that night.  The next morning, I knew I needed to “make things right” before I did anything else.

I composed an email to the people I had carelessly offended, and did not try to hide behind any excuses because, well, there simply weren’t any. I confessed my rude behavior and told them I was so sorry, humbly asking their forgiveness.  And the guilt started to lift.

I eagerly checked my inbox for their response, praying they would offer me the grace I didn’t deserve, but so desperately needed. When their reply came, it was exactly what a Christ-follower’s words should be: Kind and seasoned with gentleness and compassion. Tremendous relief flooded my heart!

Forgiven! Is there any greater word in the English language than that? It is what God offers all of us sinners who repent and confess our sin to Him, embracing the gift of Jesus for our forgiveness and salvation.

It is what we need to extend to one another when we offend one another. And it gives a palpable relief when it is offered and accepted.

We are reminded in Ephesians 4:1-3, “As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” and 4:32, “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

I am so thankful for the work of the Holy Spirit; He guides me, convicting me of my ugly sin when necessary, and helping me do the things I know I ought to do… and what a wonderful feeling when we obey His gentle prodding in our hearts! Freedom from guilt and worry, and freedom to carry on in our calling to follow Jesus, not perfectly, but growingly.

Is there anyone in your life that you need to ask forgiveness from? It is a wonderful feeling when we confess our offenses, seeking forgiveness from those we have hurt. Has someone hurt you and asked your forgiveness and perhaps you’ve resisted offering it, preferring instead to hold them hostage to the guilt they carry? God asks us to forgive as we have been forgiven – freely, quickly, and in all things.

This life isn’t always easy. There are many blocks to stumble over; but God has made a way for us to get back on the right path, following Him. That is where Victory is. Let’s spur one another on to love and forgiveness. And let’s talk…you know – between friends.

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